Even those couple who start off with heavy and hot sex lives at some point go through slumps. You need to find a way to always rekindling your sex drive for the betterment of your relationship. The following are some of the rules which will help you as a couple stay sexually satisfied in your long-term relationship.

Schedule kid-free date nights

A lot of energy usually goes into your kids that you get too exhausted to nurture one another. You can go for a date without the lids to show them you are not together because of them but because you enjoy each other genuinely. Once a year you can splurge on a hotel to have hotel sex. Having sex in an unfamiliar and new place activates dopamine which is responsible for the rush of pleasure.

Avoid Comparisons

You should never compare your sex lives to that of others. This is a no-no but a common pitfall which most couples fall into. When you start comparing yourself to other people, you often will find a way to either make yourselves seem better or less than them. Long-term sexual connections are not about who is best or having it most often. Your sexual contact with your spouse over time changes, grows and if you are open, it takes you to places you never thought you could go. You will have moments of pleasurable connectedness, extreme highs and also moments of feeling bored, feeling bored and disconnected. This is normal in long-term …